Hey, we always hear girls asking “How would they know if a guy is serious with them?” This is a common question to every pinays out there who are about to fall in-love or perhaps, are already in-love, but suppress their feelings because they’re too scared to suffer again from a ruined relationship .
Basically, my question is just the opposite from above. “How would we guys (PINOYs) know if the girl is serious?”
Yeah, I know girls are generaly sincere… well so are we men. But there are always quite some exceptions, right?
How do you know a pinay girl is serious in a relationship?
I must have read somewhere on women’s magazine that sometime women can deal perfectly with their emotions but when they really fall for someone, their pretention wall starts to break.You would know, just by looking straight in their eyes, just by the way their eyes talk even if they say nothing.
Just staring at you, you would know based on how they hold your hand and especially when they start doing silly and corny things which they hate to do before they’re not under the spell of love, yet they still do it. 
So how can you tell if a girl is serious with you? What are the tell-tale signs? Please share because I am deeply confused right now! hehehe
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when i was in the same situation, someone told me this –
it hurts to deeply fall in love when the one you love is falling out of love….
it’s true but what really matters is acceptance of the theory before the fact is known…. if you love a gurl more, love her less….. if you give her much time, give her less time…. if you care for her more, care less… it’s not that you are competing with her emotion but your emotion… in this way, whne the fact is known it will be easier for you.
but, in reality, base on my experience it’s so HARD – hard on everything, to know, to learn and to accept the truth that she “MAYBE” is falling in love – with someone. but that’s life and have to accept it…..
true love is always synonymous with pain.
Ahaaaaaaaaah, iho, obviously kulang ka pa yata sa experience ng teknik ng panliligaw? Don’t ever mind if she loves you na, iho; don’t even think of it. It’s useless…just proceed with tutok-balisong (Atakeng Hapon) na pangliligaw for at least two weeks (daily yan ha?)… then withdraw(no panhik ligaw, calls or SMS!) for another two (ala Mao Tse Tung! Read The Art of War by Lao Tzu!)…. saka ka lang mag-observe ng reaction niya ulit! Better do something that surprises her daily during your ‘ligaw’, like a ‘Hi’ sabay kaway from a short distance kung wala ka sched for that day for ‘akyat-ligaw’ (surprise her with flowers and inexpensive but thoughtful gifts also)…